Next to my husband and my son's, right now Knowlton "Tote" Carson is the most important man in my life.
I was introduced to Tote by way of an old photo album, and have been researching him for the past few weeks. It's slow going but I have managed a few high points.
I have managed to contact one of his daughters and interviewed her twice. She provided the death date of her mother and the nicknames of her maternal grandparents (always good to have notated in the family history). She also clued me in on why I couldn't locate any info on Tote's mother...apparently she and his father divorced in the 20's (that's the NINEteen 20's, folks) while Tote was in college. Wow.
She also explained that why I hadn't been able to contact the oldest daughter. She's apparently in a nursing home due to illness.
On the plus side (it's a plus from a research perspective, but it's also kind of sad on a historic level), I found more Tote treasures at a local thrift store. I found an alumni medal presented to a "Mrs. K.E. Carson" of Kansas during the 1959 reunion of the Rainbow Division (42nd Division of the US Army). I also found two small silver pocket knives that were inscribed with Knowlton's nickname and last name. One of them also had the birthdates of Mrs. Knowlton Carson, his two daughters, one son and three grandaughters (two of which have since passed.) I personally loved them, but I was sad that they were in a thrift shop, having been sold for a pittance.
I suppose I might have to get used to this.